Romance Bootcamp Series Prt 1

Romance Bootcamp

 

Renessa and Heather  share life secrets on how you are attracting and/or sabotaging your love life, so you do not have to spend another month or year alone. Before anyone can find love they must first be “Liked” by the person they are attracted to.
If you have ever gone a first date and thought things went well, only to find out the person did not like you the same way you liked them…. then your attract-O-meter is off. If you have been going on dates and you have not been attracted to any of your candidates, than your attract-O-meter may be off because… you are the common denominator.
Links to the workbooks are below. In the video we go over “Your Love Story” First and then when Renessa is speaking you will go over the Attract O Meter Exercise

** Download By Clicking Here>>>Romance Bootcamp Attract O meter

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Match Date Love Celebrates Mothers

Happy Sunny Friday To You!!!
 Happy Mothers Day to all of the Mothers reading this and to all of the Mothers we have in our lives. This Mother’s Day I get to celebrate being pregnant with my third baby.
            This week we found out we are having a baby boy! He is due to arrive this November. We are super excited to be growing our family as my Husband has 3 children and I have 2 children, so this is going to baby #6 for us!
    I am so thankful for the event and matchmaking staff that Match Date Love has to keep supporting our singles community in introducing you the best match to share your life with. I am continuing to enjoy matchmaking and coaching all of our women and men clientele during my pregnancy and after maternity leave. 
                   Since I am the oldest of six children, I have always wanted a big family and I feel like each one of you are a part of this child’s life as he grows up knowing how important love is. I haven’t been pregnant in almost 10 years so I am excited to share this journey with my Husband and also to inspire all of the singles I love working with that love, marriage, and babies are possible for those seeking.
 
                     Just don’t give up on your goals for love. As we continue to grow Match Date Love with our online dating classes and Love Coaching Consulting globally, we want to support you with reaching your goals with inviting the right partner into your life.
                   As we go into this weekend celebrating the one who special person in our lives… Our Mother. I hope your weekend is filled with thanking your Awesome Mom for all their love, support and guidance for the person we are today. 
                    I share my successes and struggles because we all have them and I understand the life of being single and wanting to find the right partner to invite into your life and our children’s lives. I hope to see you at one of our events soon and to introduce you to the partner you deserve. 
I look forward to seeing you soon!
Your Love Encourager,
Renessa Rios-Strong and Love Activators Team
match maker and dating coach
Founder Of Match Date Love; MDL hosts over 80 single events every year bringing together over 25,000 local singles, MDL has successfully matched over 300 couples and MDL is the only dating company providing personal growth dating classes and flirting coaching in the Northwest, Beverly Hills – Los Angeles CA and Dating Coaching Online Globally.

Seattle’s Dating Coach Renessa Rios: How to stay out of the friend zone

Seattle’s Dating Coach Renessa Rios How to stay out of the friend zone

Lets just be friends…. those words can bring comfort or pain depending on what your true intentions are for your relationship with your “friend” Once in the friend zone it can
be hard almost hurtful to try and move from platonic to romantic… on todays show we will go over
some ways to move your friendship to relationship and ever lasting love.

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Seattle’s Dating Coach Renessa Rios Lets Talk About Sex

Seattle’s Dating Coach Renessa Rios Lets Talk About Sex

We live in a world today that for whatever reason shunes the topic of sex as some underground issue or secret. Seattle Dating Coach Renessa Rios Talks about when in reality sex and intimacy is as much of our everyday life as getting dressed and eating. In Fact Humans have two basic desires Food and Sex thats what keeps us motivated. why? it is built in our DNA as these two activities will guarantee the survival of the human race… We have cooking shows, restaurants and countless books on how to have great food and what to do to make it… why are the books, shops, tv shows and other information on how to have great sex so secret? On todays show we will shine a big bright light on this subject and we’ll look at
three important additions to one’s sex life: position, time, and location to not just have sex but have great sex…With a few small additions to your sexual vocabulary you can break out of boredom and
lead happier, more satisfying sex lives. Postions, Time of day and location- The key is to not get into a pattern of boredom. Be creative in all three areas for sex, try new positions, in a new place at a new time.. Keeping the same old same old can and will get old… that is a basic fact. This excites the brain and builds excitement in the most powerful human interaction of making love. For more on this topic and others concerning Dating and Coaching check out our Date and relationship coaching page

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Why do women stay with men accused of affairs or crimes? The Tammy Wynette Syndrome

Although Holly Petraeus was reportedly “furious” about her husband’s affair with Paula Broadwell, friends say the couple is determined to stand by their 38-year marriage. (AP photo)

Why do women stay with men accused of affairs or crimes? The Tammy Wynette Syndrome
November 15,
Listen: The Tammy Wynette Syndrome – Why do women stand by men who cheat or commit crimes?

It was 1968 when country music star Tammy Wynette told women everywhere they need to overlook their husband’s shortcomings and faults if they truly love him.
“Stand by your man and show the world you love him. Keep giving all the love you can. Stand by your man.”

After all, he’s just a man.

Hillary Clinton did it. Holly Petraeus stands by her husband of 38 years after the former General’s affair with Paula Broadwell.

Kari Bales does the same as her husband, Staff Sergeant Robert Bales, faces a possible court martial after her husband was accused of killing 16 civilians in Afghanistan.

“This is not him. It’s not him,” the Lake Tapps wife and mother told reporters soon after her husband was arrested in March. Nine months later she’s still with him.

The wife of Danford Grant, the Seattle attorney accused of raping several women at massage businesses, has been in court supporting him.

Hours after Hope Solo’s fiance Jerramy Stevens faced a judge following a domestic assault arrest, she married him.

We see this over, and over again.

“Wives choosing to stand in front of America and say, ‘I’m gonna stick next to him and go through this’ doesn’t mean they’re saying it’s okay,” says Renessa Rios, a Bellevue-based relationship expert.

She says there are three basic reasons for what’s sometimes called “the Tammy Wynette syndrome.”

“Number one is that women are forgiving. We come from a place that we want to make things work out, especially as mothers,” she says.

Women also look at their investment in a relationship.

“We look at the person as a whole, not just the one interaction of cheating or a crime,” says Rios. “Should we pull out, should we not? We really weigh out those pros and cons based on the entire relationship.”

The third reason involves communication. Often after an affair, or crime, the man “all of a sudden” starts to talk to his partner in an emotional, vulnerable way.

“It’s a big turn on for women when her partner communicates,” Rios says.

The wife often feels victorious after a cheating situation too because even after an affair, the husband usually chooses to remain with his spouse.

We see this scenario played out in high-profile cases in the media, but it also happens every day in ordinary lives too.

Choosing to leave can be more than staying in a relationship after an affair or crime allegation.

“If several years of marriage and children are involved, many women will sacrifice her humiliation in order to keep the family together,” Rios says.

Some women are more willing to accept abuse than others, and Rios says the affair General David Petreaus had was “clearly abusive” of his wife Holly.

“Her integrity has been affected, her emotional even her sexual safety have all been compromised,” Rios explains. “Just because she wasn’t hit with a bat or by a punch with his hand, her mind and her heart is all being completely abused and affected right now.”

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New Love Opportunities In The Air

New Love Opportunities In The Air

Happy Tuesday To You!

Lets turn this new month into new beginnings and new opportunities for our love life!

I love doing new and fun events to get our singles in our city connecting. It is time to unplug and get off the internet and out of our home and offices and enjoy face to face encounters with singles that are on the same journey as you in your life.

Have good conversations, enjoy laughing and creating a connection that can turn into a friendship or even a loving relationship.

Over 70% of our attendees at all of our events are new singles that I have never met before that come from all of our online marketing. So always expect to meet new singles at our events.

I am here to support you if you need to build your confidence at events and on dates. I love coaching singles to sharing what is on their mind when conversing with someone new. This makes it easy to create attraction with the topics they choose to engage in that builds trust and intimacy. I offer a complimentary phone informational meeting to see if coaching is right for you. Click here to schedule our time together!

I look forward to seeing you soon!
Your Love Encourager,
Renessa Rios-Strong and Love Activators Team
match making and dating coach Seattle
Founder Of Match Date Love; MDL hosts over 80 single events every year bringing together over 25,000 local singles, MDL has successfully matched over 300 couples and MDL is the only dating company providing personal growth dating classes and flirting coaching in the Northwest, Beverly Hills – Los Angeles CA and Dating Coaching Online Globally.
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Express Your Love

Express Your Love

Happy Monday To You!
Are you ready to express yourself with purpose and passion with your online dating profile so you can experience more successful dates and start a loving and happy relationship? Women and men are ready to meet the real you, if you can express that online to build attraction then your possibilities are endless for love!
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Remember you have the opportunity to create a new beginning in your love life with Match Date Love. 
Remember do not give up on your love life, there are a lot of great singles waiting to meet you.
I look forward to seeing you soon!
Your Love Encourager,
Renessa Rios-Strong and Love Activators Team
Match maker and dating coach Seattle
Founder Of Match Date Love; MDL hosts over 80 single events every year bringing together over 25,000 local singles, MDL has successfully matched over 300 couples and MDL is the only dating company providing personal growth dating classes and flirting coaching in the Northwest, Beverly Hills – Los Angeles CA and Dating Coaching Online Globally.
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Singles That Are Ready To Mingle

Singles That Are Ready To Mingle

Happy Friday To You!

The hours it takes to organize these events for a 100 guests to attend and all of the awesome volunteers that give their time to connect and greet everyone that attends, is a true sign that there are women and men with loving hearts and are just wanting to meet the right person to share it with.
If you ever notice yourself talking negative about living the single life please know that there are great singles in our city wanting a happy long term committed relationship and are possibly just waiting to meet you!
Can you imagine that the right person is out there right now waiting to meet you and you just have to get out there and introduce yourself and enjoy a great conversation getting to know each other and the romance begins with the right partner!
You are just one introduction away from meeting the right partner for your life. Now if you need support with keeping the conversation going or flirting or building attraction, I would suggest connecting with me for a dating coaching session to support you with how you are introducing yourself and the words that are coming out of your mouth. I have helped singles build confidence, understand their audience of men or omen they are wanting to attract and most off all, they were able to authentically connect in a way that now they are in a loving relationship. 
Remember do not give up on your love life and  there are a lot of great singles waiting to meet you.
I look forward to seeing you soon!
Your Love Encourager,
Renessa Rios-Strong and Love Activators Team
match maker and dating coach Seattle
Founder Of Match Date Love; MDL hosts over 80 single events every year bringing together over 25,000 local singles, MDL has successfully matched over 300 couples and MDL is the only dating company providing personal growth dating classes and flirting coaching in the Northwest, Beverly Hills – Los Angeles CA and Dating Coaching Online Globally.
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Believe In Love

Believe In Love

“If you can dream it you can do it” said Walt Disney!
Happy Friday to you! I hope you had a great week so far.
Have you ever felt this way?
I was coaching a nice woman the other day and she was sharing with me how sometimes she feels like she will find a partner in life and then sometime she feels she won’t find a partner in life.
I know what that is like to be on the fence and feeling like “maybe” this going to happen or maybe it isn’t. Since she is on the fence, she has been going on a lot of dates this last year and not feeling chemistry with anyone.
I was not on the dates with her, but I do know about mind set and the energy we give off when we are in doubt or indecisiveness. I bet the men she was on dates with, felt her not really knowing if she wanted love or her doubt of wondering if this was the right partner for her.
There is a huge difference when going on a date believing in love and sharing and connecting and finding out after discovering who this person is, that you two are not compatible in many ways to not move forward but the idea of love is still strong in your heart just not towards that person.
This is completely different than showing up on a date feeling like love is not going to happen for you or that the other person has to perform a certain way for you to feel chemistry and then you not sharing who you truly are, so the other person feels like they are only meeting 30 percent of you, versus 80 or 90 percent. This changes the connection from them sharing same attention, connection and energy back towards you.
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We are always reflecting our emotions to those around us. If you feel happy, joyful, and appreciation because you know love is going to happen soon that will project from you. If you feel worry, concern, doubtful, judgmental or doubtful that will also project from you subconsciously and in your body language. We can instantly change how we feel by connecting to our dream of love and not the feelings of our current circumstances. It will happen for you and I am here to encourage you along the way. We all have our own dream for love, keep going out on dates, coming to single events, going to dating classes and connecting with your community. You are one “Hello” away from meeting the right partner.
I look forward to seeing you soon!
Your Love Encourager,
Renessa Rios-Strong and Love Activators Team
Match maker and dating coach Seattle
Founder Of Match Date Love; MDL hosts over 80 single events every year bringing together over 25,000 local singles, MDL has successfully matched over 300 couples and MDL is the only dating company providing personal growth dating classes and flirting coaching in the Northwest, Beverly Hills – Los Angeles CA and Dating Coaching Online Globally.
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Your New Page With Love Starts Now

Your New Page With Love Starts Now

Happy Wednesday To You!

I want to share with you a great way to restart your love life when sometimes it feels like you are putting in all of the right effort and not getting the result’s you want. I have felt this way in my life especially when growing my business to help singles in their love life.
I have had friends share with me that with my background, education and experience why don’t I just go get a corporate job and live happily ever after. I share with them that I love living out my passion everyday helping singles create the love life they deserve.
I also know that most corporate people would rather feel like they have the entrepreneur freedom that comes with owning your own business. But there is a lot of risk owning your own business as well.
In any case, I see a lot of singles that look at their love life very similarly to the safe corporate job feeling to the entrepreneur life, “why put in all the work, to build a new relationship that may not work out”, so instead they just stay safe with good friends, a good job, a lot of hobbies and traveling and not get too attached to someone new that may never work out.
It is hard to trust your instincts all over again when the last person you trusted in your love life did not work out. I know what you are feeling especially after my divorce I felt this exact same way.
 I too have trusted new employees, new managers, new assistants to find out later that the love business wasn’t what fulfilled their passion.
I did not get mad at them, I was thankful for the time we spent together. I was sad to see them leave but how many of us look at love the same way. That just because that person agreed to be with us and after being together for a certain amount of time, you two were not a good match,
Maybe they had bad communication, maybe they didn’t see the same long term future goals as you did, maybe they weren’t ready for the level commitment they thought they were months before meeting you.
It is sad and it hurts to see someone you trusted and even loved move on, but in some ways we have to be grateful that they didn’t just stay because they were afraid to hurt our feelings. Imagine if I had a staff that were just staying to help my company because they were afraid of hurting my feelings but did not care about all of the singles we help everyday.
This would not be a healthy company for our community and for myself the owner. Well I know a lot of people that are in jobs and relationships like this, they are afraid to move on to the unknown and play it safe by not hurting anyone’s feelings.

It is time for us to turn a new page and move on ourselves and be open to trusting and sharing our lives with the right person and in some cases we might have been the ones leaving our past relationships and its our time to open up and move into new territory, where we can find love with the right person. We are going to have trust and love again and in return I know the right person will show up in the right time!
I hope this helps you and I hope you can see in your life if you are playing it safe and how it is time to move on and begin new in love.
Your Love Encourager,
Renessa Rios-Strong and Love Activators Team
Match maker and dating coach Seattle
Founder Of Match Date Love; MDL hosts over 80 single events every year bringing together over 25,000 local singles, MDL has successfully matched over 300 couples and MDL is the only dating company providing personal growth dating classes and flirting coaching in the Northwest, Beverly Hills – Los Angeles CA and Dating Coaching Online Globally.